All of
us have been through a common phase of being a student where we were taught
about two things-one natural and the other man made.Everybody believes in the
fact that natural things are made by God.For
example-Trees,rivers,landscapes,water and one of the best of all living beings
and man being the most intelligent of them.Talking about man made things we
have many things like home,roads,bridges and one of the worst things is
“Distinction” between people on different basis.These distinctions are
caste,creed,religion,colour,thinking,good and bad deeds and many others.Every
one of us is facing one or the other distinction everyday.Well this was just
the introduction of what I wish to share because I want to remind everyone about our ‘Utopic Society’.Our society has few
norms and believes to judge people and their deeds.And it never forgives or
understand those who commit mistakes.
From
past few days I have been watching Gumrah (Channel V) and MTV Webbed(MTV).I am
fond of these story based series.And after watching few episodes I felt the
need to pen down my thoughts on what I have seen.My spectrum of thought rested
on INTERNET.No I am not going to talk about its pros and cons.We are already
aware.Rather I wish to talk about something else.I am talking about
MMS(Multimedia Message Service).Its a trend these days.Making videos and
uploading them for fun.But sometimes it takes away someones life.And this isn’t
cool.
Todays
youth and specially teenagers are very sensitive.They face many things in
school and colleges like peer pressure,not being cool types tags,ugly
looks,being a geek and many more.It may sound normal to us but for them it is
not.These things leads to stress and to change there image they do things which
ultimately lead them into a mess.Well I want to focus more on MMS.We might have
heared about MMS being made of people around us and how it goes viral on web
resulting in complete destruction of there life.
Tell me
something… is there anybody on this planet who has not commited any mistake.The
answer is ‘NO’.And its obvious no body wants to make fun of themselves.Like no
one will upload there intimacy acts on web.Someone else who holds grudges with
them will do so.
For
people who are in a relationship can understand it better that they have some
intimate moments with there partners.And they have it because they trust each
other.What if someone breaks their trust?What is wrong at there part ?Is it
that they trust someone or they get close?I guess nothing.It’s just few people
have a tendency to cheat others and they think
its cool.They always forget ‘What goes around ,comes around’.It can
happen to anyone ,anywhere,anyday.
90%
people in this world criticise others for doing wrong things rather blame them
if anything wrong occurs in their life.They get an abstract happiness in making
fun of others unless the same thing happens to them.People understand things
better when they face the same situation.I guess this is totally
wrong.Sometimes truth is unseen and lie is what people believe in easily.
What is
so special about human body I don’t understand.Eveybody knows what are the body
parts and how they look.Still when you get to see them on web or MMS what makes
it so exciting?Everybody is born naked.During our course of evolution we didn’t
wear any clothes.God made us equal.It is we who covered our bodies.Then why is
it an issue if u get to see it.
Why our
society is hypocrite? Why it is so
judgemental?
No one
wants to make fun of themselves.Why if something wrong happens to someone,we
try to make there life more miserable by putting blames and making fun of them.Why
can’t we ignore it and help them overcome there circumstances.They are already
troubled.It can happen to anybody.It is perfectly alright because it just
happened.Its “OK”.If you get time do read about Amanda Todd on google and try
to understand what she went through.
Robert
Frost said “The best way out is always through”.
I
believe the greatest gift one can give to other is unconditional love and
acceptance.And it is the most easiest and priceless thing in the world.It takes
nothing.But a person who goes through all this should also understand that LIFE
NEVER ENDS.It always gives a second chance.If you trust yourself you can
overcome any mistake.You need to stand for yourself.
There
is always a solution to any problem.If something wrong happens on net one can
talk to their elders and specially parents.One can take help from police.One
has to keep faith that this situation can be handled.For people who play with
emotions of others are definitely not normal.They need help. If someone knows
the difference between right and wrong that person will definitely not do
anything wrong.But if someone doesn’t know it then who are we to judge it.What
we need to do is make them understand this difference.Most of us have younger
brother and sister.It is our responsibility to guide them about what is right
and wrong.
If you
are reading this just think what if all this happens to you and you are not at
fault.So don’t watch such things or let others do.Dont make fun or judge
others.They can be innocent.
