MMS

All of us have been through a common phase of being a student where we were taught about two things-one natural and the other man made.Everybody believes in the fact that natural things are made by God.For example-Trees,rivers,landscapes,water and one of the best of all living beings and man being the most intelligent of them.Talking about man made things we have many things like home,roads,bridges and one of the worst things is “Distinction” between people on different basis.These distinctions are caste,creed,religion,colour,thinking,good and bad deeds and many others.Every one of us is facing one or the other distinction everyday.Well this was just the introduction of what I wish to share because I want to remind everyone  about our ‘Utopic Society’.Our society has few norms and believes to judge people and their deeds.And it never forgives or understand those who commit mistakes.

From past few days I have been watching Gumrah (Channel V) and MTV Webbed(MTV).I am fond of these story based series.And after watching few episodes I felt the need to pen down my thoughts on what I have seen.My spectrum of thought rested on INTERNET.No I am not going to talk about its pros and cons.We are already aware.Rather I wish to talk about something else.I am talking about MMS(Multimedia Message Service).Its a trend these days.Making videos and uploading them for fun.But sometimes it takes away someones life.And this isn’t cool.

Todays youth and specially teenagers are very sensitive.They face many things in school and colleges like peer pressure,not being cool types tags,ugly looks,being a geek and many more.It may sound normal to us but for them it is not.These things leads to stress and to change there image they do things which ultimately lead them into a mess.Well I want to focus more on MMS.We might have heared about MMS being made of people around us and how it goes viral on web resulting in complete destruction of there life.

Tell me something… is there anybody on this planet who has not commited any mistake.The answer is ‘NO’.And its obvious no body wants to make fun of themselves.Like no one will upload there intimacy acts on web.Someone else who holds grudges with them will do so.

For people who are in a relationship can understand it better that they have some intimate moments with there partners.And they have it because they trust each other.What if someone breaks their trust?What is wrong at there part ?Is it that they trust someone or they get close?I guess nothing.It’s just few people have a tendency to cheat others and they think  its cool.They always forget ‘What goes around ,comes around’.It can happen to anyone ,anywhere,anyday.

90% people in this world criticise others for doing wrong things rather blame them if anything wrong occurs in their life.They get an abstract happiness in making fun of others unless the same thing happens to them.People understand things better when they face the same situation.I guess this is totally wrong.Sometimes truth is unseen and lie is what people believe in easily.

What is so special about human body I don’t understand.Eveybody knows what are the body parts and how they look.Still when you get to see them on web or MMS what makes it so exciting?Everybody is born naked.During our course of evolution we didn’t wear any clothes.God made us equal.It is we who covered our bodies.Then why is it an issue if u get to see it.

Why our society  is hypocrite? Why it is so judgemental?

No one wants to make fun of themselves.Why if something wrong happens to someone,we try to make there life more miserable by putting blames and making fun of them.Why can’t we ignore it and help them overcome there circumstances.They are already troubled.It can happen to anybody.It is perfectly alright because it just happened.Its “OK”.If you get time do read about Amanda Todd on google and try to understand what she went through.

Robert Frost said “The best way out is always through”.

I believe the greatest gift one can give to other is unconditional love and acceptance.And it is the most easiest and priceless thing in the world.It takes nothing.But a person who goes through all this should also understand that LIFE NEVER ENDS.It always gives a second chance.If you trust yourself you can overcome any mistake.You need to stand for yourself.

There is always a solution to any problem.If something wrong happens on net one can talk to their elders and specially parents.One can take help from police.One has to keep faith that this situation can be handled.For people who play with emotions of others are definitely not normal.They need help. If someone knows the difference between right and wrong that person will definitely not do anything wrong.But if someone doesn’t know it then who are we to judge it.What we need to do is make them understand this difference.Most of us have younger brother and sister.It is our responsibility to guide them about what is right and wrong.

If you are reading this just think what if all this happens to you and you are not at fault.So don’t watch such things or let others do.Dont make fun or judge others.They can be innocent.